Friday, 5 February 2016

MARRIAGE THROUGH MATRIMONIAL WEBSITES


In this modern world, there are billions of people and no 2 persons have the same type of views.
When we talk about a marriage, some prefers ARRANGED MARRIAGE and other prefers LOVE MARRIAGE.

In case of ARRANGED MARRIAGES, the parents of bride and the groom fix the marriage of their children. Both the partners do not know each other at all. After the engagement, they come to know about some basic things of each other - names of their family members, their hobbies, their aims, their favorites and the like. But during the short interval of time, they can't perceive their partner's actual personality. Finally, they marry and after that, when they start living with each other in the same room; share all the belongings; express their thoughts, feelings, emotions; they completely know their partner's personality.
If they get the partner they dream of, they thank God, else they will always regret for the rest of their life.

In case of LOVE MARRIAGES, there is no involvement of parents.
A boy and a girl see each other. If some emotions create in their heart, they will to meet each other. After some meetings, they judge whether the partner is perfect for them or not. If they feel satisfied, they continue their meetings frequently, along with increasing love. Before any engagement or marriage, they start to care for each other, share their feelings, emotions and they plan how they live happily after the marriage.
Finally, after knowing each other's personality, they decide to marry. They inform their parents about their love. If the parents agree, they marry and start a happy married life.


So, In both the situations above, there have some positive points and some negative points.
In Arranged Marriages,
Parents choose the partners; but it may happen that the partners are not satisfied with each other after the marriage.
In case of Love Marriages,
Both the Partners love and satisfied with other; but their parents may not like their children s' choice.


To avoid all these tensions, one should marry to such a person such that both the partners and their parents get satisfaction.  How can it be possible????
Yes, it is possible if one shall do LOVE-CUM-ARRANGED MARRIAGE. And to provide such golden opportunity to the youngsters, many matrimonial websites are there.

The Benefit of these matrimonial websites, in short, is that it provides a lot of interested persons who want to marry. One can view the profiles of different persons and select some persons, whom they feel appropriate for them. Then they start chatting through the site, share pictures, videos, ideas and the like, without a meeting.
Here, during the online selection process of partners, both parents and partners are involved and during the chatting process, both of them know about the other, likes the personality of the other, falls in love and finally marry as if it is an arranged marriage.

That's why, these days, matrimonial websites are highly used to find a perfect life partner.












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